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Letting Go

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He sat there quietly staring into the crowd but from the look on his face he was not paying attention to anything that was going on around him. His body was there but not his mind, spirit or soul, I looked at him and a tear fell from my eye, his hand stretched immediately to catch it. While he was wiping the tear he uttered these words "I'll be ok, don't worry about me, it's time for me to let go" Those words pierced my heart I stood up and went to the loo to cry out my anger and pain. Letting go was not an option after this far we've come together, the struggles we've gone through. I wanted him to keep fighting and not to let go because there was hope, no matter how tiny it was, it was still hope. I looked into the mirror and stared, it was evident that it was time for me to also let go. The white flag had been raised meaning the end of the journey. He fell in love with her the moment he set his eye on her it was love at f...

The 90 Day Rule

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When Steve Harvey released his best selling book titled "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man" it was the answer book to every woman's question in regards to a man. The 90 Day Rule chapter was among the women's favorite, they read it very carefully made sure that each and every sentence was well understood then jumped into the dating world and used it as their weapon. The rule is nothing new some women refer to it as the probation period for men. In case you're not familiar with this "rule" it states that you should never sleep with someone before you've been dating him or her at least for 90 days. In Steve's book he explains "During the ninety-day period, you should be checking him out; does he come when he says he's going to come; does he call when he's going to be late; does he like and care about your friends and, if you have them, your children; does he express his joy at being in their presence? I ...